Have you ever sat in a meeting or social gathering and thought, “I don’t belong here. Any minute now, they’ll figure out I don’t know what I’m doing”? If so, you’ve probably experienced imposter syndrome. Don’t worry—you’re not alone. In fact, this nagging self-doubt is incredibly common, especially in today’s fast-paced, high-pressure world. And the good news is, there are ways to overcome it.
What is Imposter Syndrome?
Imposter syndrome is that nagging feeling that you’re a fraud, even when there’s plenty of evidence to show you’re skilled and successful. It’s not about sneaking into places where you don’t belong; instead, it’s about doubting your worth in spaces where you do belong. This self-doubt can pop up at work, in social settings, or even in personal situations. You might catch yourself thinking, “My success is just luck. I don’t really deserve this.” But here’s the truth: you absolutely do. Your brain is just trying to protect you from risk and uncertainty—and it’s often terrified of change!
Studies show that about 70% of people will experience imposter syndrome at least once in their lives. It’s not limited to a specific type of person. But the key thing to remember is that imposter syndrome doesn’t reflect your actual abilities—it’s all about how you feel.
The Cycle of Anxiety and Self-Doubt
Imposter syndrome and anxiety often go hand-in-hand, creating a vicious cycle. You might over-prepare for a presentation, worried that someone will realise you’re “faking it.” When it goes well, you don’t celebrate your success; instead, you attribute it to all the extra work you did. The more you achieve, the more anxious you become, convincing yourself that it’s only a matter of time before someone “finds out.” This cycle can leave you feeling exhausted and burnt out.
5 Tips to Overcome Imposter Syndrome
If imposter syndrome sounds all too familiar, here are five ways to start breaking the cycle:
Challenge Your Inner Critic: When self-doubt creeps in, ask yourself, “Is this thought really true?” You’ll likely find that it’s not. Reframe your negative thoughts by focusing on your skills and why you deserve to be where you are.
Celebrate Your Wins: Take time to reflect on your achievements, both big and small. Recognise your hard work and remind yourself that it wasn’t luck—it was you.
Stop Comparing Yourself: Everyone’s journey is different, and social media only shows the highlights. Focus on your progress and remember that nobody’s life is as perfect as it seems online.
Talk About It: Share your feelings with someone you trust. Sometimes, just hearing that others have felt the same way can help you realize you’re not alone—and that imposter syndrome isn’t reality.
Seek Professional Support: If imposter syndrome is seriously affecting your life, it might be time to seek help from a professional. Working with a therapist or hypnotherapist can provide you with the tools to better understand where your imposter syndrome stems from. They’ll help you recognise those patterns of self-doubt and guide you in reshaping your thoughts.
How Hypnotherapy Can Help
If imposter syndrome is taking a toll on your life, hypnotherapy could offer the support you need to move forward. Through guided relaxation and focused attention, hypnotherapy taps into your subconscious to reframe those self-defeating thoughts. Solution Focused Hypnotherapy, in particular, helps you focus on the present and future—empowering you to take small, actionable steps toward greater confidence.
You don’t have to let imposter syndrome hold you back. If you’d like to explore how hypnotherapy can help you break free from self-doubt, I’d love to chat.
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